Tuesday, June 24, 2008
The Perfectionist
Ok, I was joking about being demanding and mean. The other title for my personality according to that test is The Perfectionist. Honestly, having done a lot of personality tests, I was surprised at how accurate some of it was based on such a short test:
Perfectionists are realistic, conscientious, and principled. They strive to live up to their high ideals.
How to Get Along with Me
- Take your share of the responsibility so I don’t end up with all the work.
- Acknowledge my achievements.
- I’m hard on myself. Reassure me that I’m fine the way I am.
- Tell me that you value my advice.
- Be fair and considerate, as I am.
- Apologize if you have been unthoughtful. It will help me to forgive.
- Gently encourage me to lighten up and to laugh at myself when I get uptight, but hear my worries first.
What I Like About Being a One
- being self-disciplined and able to accomplish a great deal
- working hard to make the world a better place
- having high standards and ethics; not compromising myself
- being reasonable, responsible, and dedicated in everything I do
- being able to put facts together, coming to good understandings, and figuring out wise solutions
- being the best I can be and bringing out the best in other people
What’s Hard About Being a One
- being disappointed with myself or others when my expectations are not met
- feeling burdened by too much responsibility
- thinking that what I do is never good enough
- not being appreciated for what I do for people
- being upset because others aren’t trying as hard as I am
- obsessing about what I did or what I should do
- being tense, anxious, and taking things too seriously
Ones as Children Often
- criticize themselves in anticipation of criticism from others
- refrain from doing things that they think might not come out perfect
- focus on living up to the expectations of their parents and teachers
- are very responsible; may assume the role of parent
- hold back negative emotions (“good children aren’t angry”)
Ones as Parents
- teach their children responsibility and strong moral values
- are consistent and fair
- discipline firmly
Sunday, June 22, 2008
The Reformer
The rational, idealistic type.
Yeah, I’m pretty much demanding and mean.
Saturday, June 21, 2008
The Peacemaker
This was an interesting personality test that I found linked from another friend’s blog. Here are the results from my test, which describe me pretty well.
The Peacemaker (the Nine)
Peacemakers are receptive, good-natured, and supportive. They seek union with others and the world around them.
How to Get Along with Me:
If you want me to do something, how you ask is important. I especially don’t like expectations or pressure.
I like to listen and to be of service, but don’t take advatage of this.
Listen until I finish speaking, even though I meander a bit.
Give me time to finish things and make decisions. It’s OK to nudge me gently and nonjudgmentally.
Ask me questions to help me get clear.
Tell me when you like how I look. I’m not averse to flattery.
Hug me, show physical affection. It opens me up to my feelings.
I like a good discussion but not a confrontation.
Let me know you like what I’ve done or said.
Laugh with me and share in my enjoyment of life.
What I Like About Being a Nine:
being nonjudgmental and accepting
caring for and being concerned about others
being able to relax and have a good time
knowing that most people enjoy my company; I’m easy to be around
my ability to see many different sides of an issue and to be a good mediator and facilitator
my heightened awareness of sensations, aesthetics, and the here and now
being able to go with the flow and feel one with the universe
What’s Hard About Being a Nine:
being judged and misunderstood for being placid and/or indecisive
being critical of myself for lacking initiative and discipline
being too sensitive to criticism; taking every raised eyebrow and twitch of the mouth personally
being confused about what I really want
caring too much about what others will think of me
not being listened to or taken seriously
Nines as Children Often:
feel ignored and that their wants, opinions, and feelings are unimportant
tune out a lot, especially when others argue
are “good” children: deny anger or keep it to themselves
Nines as Parents:
are supportive, kind, and warm
are sometimes overly permissive or nondirective
Monday, June 16, 2008
Happy Birthday, Abby!
Dear Abigail,
Happy 3rd Birthday, love! We feel so blessed to have you in our life. What a spunky, silly, sweet, goofy girl you are! The past three years have gone by so quickly and you really are becoming a little girl now, no longer a baby. You are such a fun sister and a sweet daughter. We can’t imagine life without you and love all the laughter and kisses you give us every day. We pray God will guide you and bless you throughout your whole life, that you will learn to hear His voice and know that even though we can’t see Him, He’s there and He loves you.
We love you so much, sweet girl. We’re crazy about you and can’t get enough of you!
Love,
Mommy and Daddy
Tuesday, June 03, 2008
Jr. Sports
Today was Jack’s last day of sports class. He has had such a great time trying out all the different sports and interacting with the other kids and coaches. We’ve looked forward to it every Tuesday and will miss it!
Here he is with his coaches. After class today they gave each child their own Master Jr. Sports ball to take home. I think Jack will probably sleep with it tonight! =)
For their final day, they did track and field. This was Tim’s sport of choice during his high school years, and Jack enjoyed it just like Dad.
Jump, Jack, jump! I found 4 and 5 year olds jumping hurdles to be one of the cutest things ever.
Here he is running the track with his buddy, Shelbi!
Abby and I sat on the sidelines, cheering and eating blueberries. I got this little vampire face out of her - kind of scary!
But she’s usually a cute little bundle of energy who spends lots of time running up and down the hill.
And of course, it wouldn’t have been nearly as much fun without our friends! After the class, we enjoyed a little picnic with Heidi, Cheryl (Heidi’s mom and a huge help with so many kids to look after!), Shelbi, Maggie and Elijah. We’ve enjoyed this time with them so much!
